Applies in conjunction with Neil Gaiman’s instruction to “make good art”…
Do it. Make it simple. Make it fast. Don’t overthink it. Let it, like, come like come straight out of you, and do it.
–Dave Grohl, Sound City
This is Lee. Remember Lee? I sure do, we’ve been logging a lot of quality time together these past couple of months. Hot, sweaty, sleepless nights full of coffee, hideous bastardizations of the f-bomb, and endless Spartacus marathons. We’re both big fans. Many thanks to Nyrae Dawn for getting us hooked on this show. She rocks hard.
So as my epic deadline to turn in the book draws near, we’ll both be huddled in close…conversation. Buffing, polishing, hoping to make Hunter by Night the best it can possibly be. I’ll try to post. I’ll try to Twitter and Facebook. I imagine I’ll need the occasional sanity break. But it may be a couple of weeks before I’m normal and sane again. Y’all know how these things go, I would imagine.
Just a heads-up, Lee’s January 2014 release date has been put on hold by my publisher. It will still be early 2014 I think, but I don’t have the exact date at the moment. As soon as I know, YOU will know. Sweartagod.
Thank-you as always for your patience and support. Big hugs.
Those of you who are chilling at RWA this week, please have a drink at the bar for me. Wish I could join you. 😉
I’ve been under, as an old friend of mine used to say, a metric fuckton of stress lately. The kind of stress that’s caused me to lose several pounds. Anxiety can be hell on a gal’s appetite.
So this morning I treated myself to the Starbucks drive-through. Stuff always tastes better when you don’t have to make it yourself.
I was busy pulling out money and texting another author buddy about my bad mood when I pulled up to the window. The handsome guy at the window smiled, handed me my oatmeal, and informed me that the person in front of me had paid for my order.
“Oh.” I sat there with my ten dollar bill in my hand and and a whole lot of confusion. “Well that was awfully nice.”
“People do that sometimes,” he said. “You know. Pay it forward.”
Not that I hadn’t heard of the concept. I saw the movie with that cute kid. I’m just not sure I’d been on the receiving end of something quite like having my food paid for by a random stranger.
So I handed him my ten anyway and told him to pay for the person behind me. I guess whoever was behind me hadn’t ordered much. It looked like there was a lot of change. Instead of taking it back, I told them to put it in the tip jar. (I worked in a coffee shop for a year in college. People always left shitty tips, and the morning rush is stressful. And hell, I’d just gotten free breakfast. I had unexpected wiggle room in my budget. I could have kept that money but I didn’t want to.) The guy smiled at me again, and said thanks, and I drove away with my mood a bazillion times better than it had been all week.
That moment shifted my perspective. It reminded me that there’s good in the world even on a day when things seemed pretty craptacular, and I got the opportunity to make someone else feel good, too. When things feel out of control, we can focus on the things we do have control over. I can still choose not to be an asshole. It reminded me that I was in a position at that moment of doing something that was very much a luxury. Getting overpriced coffee and oatmeal with fresh blueberries was a luxury in and of itself, and then since someone had been kind enough to pay for my meal,  generously tipping for it was one as well.
I could have easily just driven away feeling good about my free breakfast, appreciating that someone did something nice for me.  Sometimes just saying “thank you” is okay too. But this particular time, being nice made the experience feel even better. It’s one of the reasons I strive for “nice” so often. And hell, I have my bitchy days just like everyone. Today someone made my day a little brighter, and hopefully I made someone else’s day brighter in return. That shit’s awesome, yanno?
Sooo! I figured it was time I check in and see how I’ve been doing on the Books Make Me Happy Out of The Box Reading Challenge for 2013!! I can tell I had great intentions (doesn’t everyone?), but then life intervened as it is wont to do. And my memory failed, as IT is wont to do. I am currently facing down a big old deadline for Hunter by Night and usually I need to binge-read for a couple of days to reboot after I turn in a manuscript, so maybe once I’ve turned in the manuscript I’ll catch up. Fingers crossed!
What I’ve read for the challenge so far this year:
Uh, ok. We’ll see if I come through on any of the rest of these by the end of the year. 😉 How about the rest of you?
I started life in college as a Computer Science and graphic design major. You’d never know, given my total ineptitude with a computer these days, that I used to be a software developer. Thing is, technology changes so fast and what actually kicked my ass was the math, not the functions and semicolons. I worked briefly for a major manufacturer of cable and wire, and developing more efficient algorithms for sag and tension held all the ease and joy for me of getting my skull drilled. My nerd skillz only run so deep.
That said, I spent almost a decade working in the industry. I wrote code, built web pages, monkeyed with databases, and even spent some time as a project manager. For someone who claims to be “totally right-brained” I did okay in that world for awhile there, and frankly it taught me a great deal I wouldn’t have learned otherwise. Our entire society revolves around information and technology these days. I may not understand the intimate inner-workings of AL THE THINGS any longer (if I ever did) but typically I have at least a fuzzy grasp. Gun to my head, I could muddle through. When my computer recently got riddled with malware, I managed to get rid of it on my own without having to wait for my husband to come home and fix it for me. Took me a solid afternoon, but I did it (All the while, cursing the asshole nerdlingers who created that shit in the first place. Get a real job and stop trying to steal my kids’ food by way of my credit card numbers, dickheads. I hate these people. Sorry.). Â Now, when I can afford to do so I still call somebody like Syd Gill for my technology needs because she’s better and faster than I am. But still, I can pull out those tools if I need to, even if the knowledge is rusty.
Anyway, someone (I think it was an author buddy) sent me this video, and it does indeed contain some thought-provoking commentary. Â We should all know how to code. At least a little. It’s pretty fascinating stuff, really. Getting in there and compiling a program, and having it do what you tell it to. I started out thinking I’d never get the hang, that I just didn’t have what it took. But really, I think we all do. At it’s most basic, it’s just learning another language. Something to think about:
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